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Believe it or not, attractive women have no more self-esteem than less attractive people. They may in fact have less self-esteem because a lot of what others say is quite inconsistent with their actual accomplishments. The world as an attractive woman sees it, is as follows: "No matter what I do, I get complimented. People always say that I do a good job no matter what I do, or how much effort I put into things. Therefore, either I am really good at things or else they are all lying. I think everyone is lying." Hence, attractive women discount much of the compliments others give them. Thus, you should think twice before complimenting a good looking woman. The first thing on an attractive woman's mind is deception. Any compliment you give to a good looking women will be scrutinized. She will assume that you have alternative plans for her. Which you probably do. Because a woman looks good, this means that others have lied to her a lot, therefore she will be good at detecting lies Some more facts are as follows. The more
attractive a woman perceives herself to be, the fewer sex partners
she has had. However, the better-looking the woman the more popular
she is as a dating partner. Thus, women who are good looking date
more, but have sex fewer times. They are also difficult to approach
because they will only date men who are on the same level as them.
As an aside, you can measure the degree to which any girl finds
herself attractive and how much self-esteem she has by the people
she hangs around with daily. The more unattractive her friends are,
the less self-esteem she has, and the more unattractive she finds
herself. This can be a bonus for you. For more information on dating and attraction,
especially body language, check out my E-book - The Body Language
Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language found at www.BodyLanguageProject.com References Buss D. 1988. The evolution of human intrasexual competition: tactics of mate attraction. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 54: 616-628. Buss D. 1989. Sex differences in human mate selection: evolutionary hypotheses tested in 37 cultures. Behavioral and Brain Sciences 12: 1-49. Major B., P.I. Carrington, and P.J.D. Carnevale. 1984. Physical attractiveness and self-esteem: attributions for praise from an other-sex evaluator. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin 10: 43-50. Walsh A. 1993. Love styles, masculinity/femininity, physical attractiveness, and sexual behavior: a test of evolutionary theory. Ethology and Sociobiology 14: 25-38. |
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